When someone really loves you they will never hurt you.
… and if they do, you will see that in their eyes… they are hurting too.
— Peter Parker
One day, an expert in time management was speaking to a group of business students and, to drive home a point, used an illustration those students will never forget. As he stood in front of the group of high-powered over-achievers he said, “Okay, time for a quiz” and he pulled out a one-gallon, wide-mouth mason jar and set it on the table in front of him. He also produced about a dozen fist-sized rocks and carefully placed them, one at a time, into the jar.
When the jar was filled to the top and no more rocks would fit inside, he asked, “Is this jar full?”
Everyone in the class yelled, “Yes.” The time management expert replied, “Really?” He reached under the table and pulled out a bucket of gravel. He dumped some gravel in and shook the jar causing pieces of gravel to work themselves down into the spaces between the big rocks.
He then asked the group once more, “Is the jar full?” By this time the class was on to him.
“Probably not,” one of them answered. “Good!” he replied. He reached under the table and brought out a bucket of sand. He started dumping the sand in the jar and it went into all of the spaces left between the rocks and the gravel.
Once more he asked the question, “Is this jar full?” “No!” the class shouted. Once again he said, “Good.” Then he grabbed a pitcher of water and began to pour it in until the jar was filled to the brim. Then he looked at the class and asked, “What is the point of this illustration?”
One eager beaver raised his hand and said, “The point is, no matter how full your schedule is, if you try really hard you can always fit some more things in it!”
“No,” the speaker replied, “that’s not the point. The truth this illustration teaches us is, “If you don’t put the big rocks in first, you’ll never get them in at all. What are the ‘big rocks’ in your life, time with loved ones, your faith, your education, your dreams, a worthy cause, teaching or mentoring others? Remember to put these BIG ROCKS in first or you’ll never get them in at all. So, tonight, or in the morning, when you are reflecting on this short story, ask yourself this question, “What are the ‘big rocks’ in my life?” Then, put those in your jar first.
Somewhere in Milaor, Camarines Sur, there lived a fourth grader boy who would follow this route to school everyday: He has to cross the rugged plains and cross the dangerous highway where vehicles are recklessly driving to and from.
Once past this highway, the boy would take a short cut, passing by the Church every morning just to say Hi to God, and faithfully say his, “Magandang umaga po” in Bicol dialect. He was faithfully being watched by a Priest who was happy to find innocence so uplifting in the morning, “Kamusta, Andoy? Papasok ka na?”
“Opo padre … “he would flash his innocent grin, the priest would be touched. He was so concerned that one day he talked to Andoy.
“From school…”, he advised “Do not cross the highway, you can pass through the Church and I can accompany you to the other side of the road…that way I can see that you are home safe….”
“Thank you father…”
“Why don’t you go home … why do you stay in this church right after school?”
Kiss on the stomach = “Im ready.”
Kiss on the forehead = “I hope we’re together forever.”
Kiss on the ear = “Your my everything.”
Kiss on the cheek = “We’re friends.”
Kiss on the hand = “I adore you.”
Kiss on the neck = “We belong together.”
Kiss on the shoulder = “I want you.”
Kiss on the lips = “I love you.”
Holding hands = “We definitely love each other”
Slap on the butt = “That’s mine”
Holding on tight = “I don’t want to let go”
Looking into each other’s eyes= “I sincerely love you”
Playing with hair= “Tell me you love me”
Arms around the waist= “I love you too much to let go”
Laughing while kissing= “I am completely comfortable with you”
When a guy calls you he wants to be with you.
When a guy is quiet, He’s listening to you…
When a guy is not arguing, He realizes he’s wrong.
When a guy says, “I’m fine, ” after a few minutes, he means it.
When a guy stares at you, he wishes you would care about him and wonders if you do?
When you’re laying your head on a guy’s chest he has the world.
When a guy calls you everyday he is in love.
When a (good) guy tells you he loves you he means it.
When a guy says he can’t live without you he’s with you till your done.
When a guy says, “I miss you, ” he misses you more than you could have ever missed him or anything else.